Volume 1, Issue 3
Dear Reader,
Well, it's been a crazy few weeks here in "Truth" central. My youngest child (7 months old) is learning to scream. Do you remember those days? There is clearly nothing wrong with him - just that he is learning to use his voice, and he seems to be enjoying it a little more than the rest of us are. LOL
But, he's hard to resist and captures our attention all the time! He is getting into things more and more each and every day, and it's so exciting to watch him discover the world around him. There is something very rewarding about seeing someone first experience I take for granted all the time.
Aside from that, work is keeping us busy here. I am excited to share a lot of upcoming interviews and events with you over the next several months. I hope you'll continue to join me.
Here's Gavin (not screaming )
Rory Stern, PsyD
http://www.theADHDparentsmovie.com
PS - I am being interviewed on April 8th at 9 PM EST. For more information, visit here!
ADHD
Exists And It Is Here To Stay!
By, Dr. Rory Stern
Despite all the recent studies and information published, many people still don't believe that ADHD exists. Many people still question whether ADHD is a real medical condition or if it is simply the latest fad created by the pharmaceutical companies to make billions of dollars.
To a large extent, I can understand the skepticism. I really can. ADHD has become very popular in our world - and is portrayed very negatively in the media (at least in the USA). But what drives me crazy is the fact that so many people - without any personal experience whatsoever - will argue adamantly that ADHD just simply does not exist.
- ADHD is an excuse for bad behavior
- Teachers just want a calmer classroom
- Where was ADHD 30 years ago (when I was in school)?
- Our children need exercise
- And so on...
These are all myths, and they destroy the hope and support needed to get through each day.
For those of you who have been touched by ADHD, you know all too well how real ADHD is and what it takes to balance your needs and the needs of your child.
To be honest with you, the real purpose behind today's article is NOT so much about the naysayers or the conspiracy theorists. Today's tip is really about support and how YOU deserve better! As a parent, you deserve understanding. You deserve support, and compassion when trying to manage everything you do.
And all those people who ridicule you, you know - the ones who make you feel horrible about the life you live and the choices you make for your child - well they DON'T GET IT! And in all likelihood, they might never get it.
Combat the naysayers and conspiracy theorists:
- Find positive support (for both you and your child).
- Surround yourself with people who do get it.
- Find trusted sources that match with your values and ideals.
- Get as educated as you can about ADHD.
- Ignore the negative attitudes and judgment.
- Educate people about your child and his or her needs.
- NEVER forget that children with ADHD are special.
- Teach your child (or loved ones) that ADHD is not the end.
Do you have questions?
If you are struggling to get the answers you need... the answers that will make a difference for your family and your child(ren), then wait no more! As a valued reader and subscriber, you can contact me and ask the questions you need answers for.
If I don't know the answer, I will find someone who does know it, and we'll learn together.
To get your questions answered, click here. Just be sure to use "Question" in your subject line.
Upcoming Teleseminar:
On Tuesday, April 8th, 2008 - I will be interviewed by therapist and adolscent expert - Shannon K. Spellman of For Parents Of Adolescents. This is a FREE teleseminar, and you can find all the details right here.
The Truth Behind ADHD is managed by Dr. Rory Stern. Dr. Stern is a advocate, therapist, coach, and speaker on parenting children with ADHD. In managing "The Truth" and this newsletter, he offers a unqiue style of providing parents of children with ADHD both information and insight into what their child is experiencing. In addition, he connects with parents on a level that allows them to understand their own struggles along with how their children are struggling. His main goal is to provide parents with the support, encouragemenbt, and resources to take action now - so they can start to experience change in their child's life, as well as in their own.
Click here to read more...
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The Truth Behind ADHD does not guarantee or provide any warranty for the information presented.
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You should continue to make any and all medical and mental health decisions with your licensed medical professionals.
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